The Position of Children Who are Hated by Their Parents and Have Nowhere to Run

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There seem to be a lot of parents recently who have children but can’t accpet them instinctively and hate them. They don’t know why, and worry themselves about that. Some psychics might say plausibly to such parents “Your children must have been tortured by you in the previous life. So they’ve come into this world as your children to get rid of their karma. Now your children and you have had the place to learn from each other.” However, if you were told that you’ve got such karma, no solution would come of it. They’re parents and children in fact, and they’re facing reality in each of their positions.

  • recently 最近
  • instinctively 本能的に
  • plausibly もっともらしく
  • torture 苦しめる
  • previous 以前の
  • get rid of A    Aを消し去る
  • in fact 実際

In this case, such children are in a difficult position. An adult wouldn’t bear with it. They have nowhere to run. If you’re an office worker, you can quit the job when you’re bullied in the office, for example. If you’re a grown-up, you can leave your house t0 get a job when you’re abused by your parents. But such children are beaten up and blamed all the time by their parents. If they’re elementary school children, they can’t leave house to work and even if they manage to run away from home, they’ll be taken into custody by the police and when they come back home, they’ll end up being scolded all the more harshly by their parents. They have to go to school in such a family environment when families should be the place for emotional support.

  • bear 耐える
  • bully いじめる
  • abuse  虐待する
  • elementary school 小学校
  • end up ~ing 結局は〜することになる
  • scold 叱る
  • harshly 厳しく
  • emotional support 心の支え

Children can be cruel sometimes to others. Children who are not taken good care of by their parents, for example, would be likely to wear the same clothes every day, forget something to school, be scolded by teachers, and be bullied by classmates who say “You stink!” They’re leading their lives, envious of other happy children who are loved by their parents.

  • cruel 残酷な
  • envious 羨ましい

However, they may be able to bear with this kind of thing, taking their mind off. What makes them feel lonely beyond description is when they find an aspect of their mother’s sexuality.They want their mother to be a mother of their own. A mere idea of their mother being an ordinary adult woman would make them sad. If their mother is dependent on a man other than their father, they will feel themselves a nuisance or a gooseberry,though there are a lot of various cases. This situation is all the more agonizing to the children because they can’t go anywhere. They might be living everyday aware of death with adults around them paying no attention to them.

  • take one’s mind off 気を紛らわす
  • feel lonely 孤独を感じる
  • beyond description  言い表せないほど
  • aspect 側面
  • mere 単なる
  • dependent 依存して
  • other than A A以外の
  • nuisance 邪魔者
  • aware 意識して
  • pay attention 注意を払う

Such children, when they grow up, might take revenge on their parents or abandon them when they’re old without hesitation if such children had been kicked out of their house in their childhood. Also, when they themselves have a family in the future, they may do the same thing to their children. Some of them, of course, may be the opposites who love their children, thinking of their parents as an example of how not to behave.

  • revenge 復讐
  • hesitation ためらい
  • opposite 逆の人
  • think of A as B AをBと考える
  • example 実例

Human beings are caught in several patters and repeat one of them unless they are aware of their Inner God in their heart. George Ivanovich Gurdjieff, a Russian with a mysyical idea, asserted that human beings, unless they are awaken,  are like robots who repeat the same response as only a machine. But you can never awaken if you don’t cut off and get rid of the magnetism of a vicious circle passed on by your ancestors and the negative magnetism you’ve made in this world.

  • unless S+V SがVしない限り
  • aware 気がついて
  • mystical idea 神秘思想
  • assert 断言する
  • response 反応
  • awaken 目覚める
  • get rid of A Aをなくす

The ways to cut off the negative magnetism are the following;

  1. Holding memory services for your ancestors
  2. Reminding yourself of gratitude in every-day life, meaning being grateful for your present situations with the thought “Thank you so much for keeping us alive”
  • remind oneself of A Aを想起する
  • gratitude 感謝の気持ち

Before you hope for solutions for family problems, you have to practice these two things first. And also, it’s important that you have gratitude to a spirit of your dead child when you offer the third incense stick during a memorial service. If you do so, ill feelings between parents and children will disappear before you know. Your problems will resolve themselves one by one.

  • solution 解決策
  • incense stick 線香
  • ill feelings わだかまり
  • resolve oneself 解決する

生かして頂いて ありがとう御座位ます

I Ka Shi Te I Ta Da I Te    A Ri Ga To U Go Za I Ma Su

Thank you so much for keeping us alive.

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